Who or what are the big winners (and losers) of America's feminist movement of the 1960's to present?

We need a new movement like feminism for men too. The biggest problem with feminism is that it's encouraged women to be more "masculine" without allowing men to be more "feminine"... this produces an unbalanced atmosphere, I think. Men NEED to embrace what's tender, reflective, soft, in themselves before the planet is plunged into the fires of hyper-masculinity that feminism has created. Odd that feminism has "liberated" women into acting more and more like men. What we needed was a feminism that liberated men into embracing their feminine side. It would do humanity good if we all looked at every issue as a mother would... really saw the value in each individual and were carefuller in terms of war, etc. Women were always amazing, they didn't need liberation except from the societal abuse of men... which can only happen when men are just as liberated from their id, ego, and superego and truly see the value in eachother about the value of power.